Dear Julian,

My fiancé and I are really interested in having a woman join us. Definitely in the bedroom, but also we would prefer someone who would like to hang out with us out of the bedroom. I have been with a woman once before, and it was a beautiful experience. We have always talked about having a threesome. He had done this before, and it was not a good experience for him. So now it comes to my question: How do we meet someone? We have tried posting an ad and that hasn’t accomplished anything. I wouldn’t mind going out somewhere, but I’m really not sure how we would approach the invitation to someone or where we would even go to meet someone like that. Any ideas? Thanks!

—J

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Hi Julian! I’ve recently come across the term “fluid bonded” several times. What exactly does this term mean and can the definition of this term mean something different to different people, depending on their own opinion of it? I feel like this is a stupid question, but the stupidest questions are the ones that are never asked!

—Asking in Albuquerque

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