This may be the first time that you’ve gotten this question but; Is there any groups or anything like that for meeting singles that are still VIRGINS anywhere around the Albuquerque area?

I keep telling myself that I CAN’T possibly be the ONLY remaining one in this town! (Even though it SEEMS like it sometimes!) It seems like everyone I meet has multiple kids, has already gone through at least 3 or 4 guys, (OR MORE!), a divorce, etc, ETC….! (EX: Drama! Baby, AND “Baby-Daddy” Drama!!)—That’s NOT what I’m really interested in having to deal with with a potential girlfriend!

I KNOW she’s out there somewhere, (hopefully around HERE somewhere), and I ALSO know that she is going to be a TRULY exceptional, extremely UNIQUE, and VERY SPECIAL girl!

Extremely Sincerely,
Joe J.

You’d be surprised how frequently people have asked similar questions! There are a lot of people out there who are saving themselves for something special. I’m not aware of a group in town specifically for virgins, so let me suggest that you go looking for that someone special wherever you’re going to have something else in common with her as well. In my first draft of this column, I typed out several questions about what your interests might be, but that advice is going to be very similar to what I offered a previous person with a quandary and numerous people in real life. What I’m going to suggest is that you create a personal ad. Do so locally (that’s what Love Bird and Lust Bird are for—it sounds like you need Love Bird) and beyond that, start a group yourself.

You’re probably not the only the only one out there looking, and an ad and/or scheduling a meet-up at a local coffeehouse is likely going to do you a lot of good.

Good luck, and if you have more questions, just ask away.

hello there. i have a foot fetish and would like to know if there are any groups for this in the albuq. area. also would like advice on where to find women willing to receive foot massages. just like giving foot massages and rubbing them on my face. also if you may be interested in doing this with me. thanks.

hope to hear from ya soon.

Dear Foot Guy,

There are not any groups that I’m aware of that are specifically for foot fetish in Albuquerque. There are, however many kink groups who encourage such behavior. You can find links to several of them here at SaucySW, just to your right. I am also going to recommenced that you read the same advice that I gave to Joe above, though for you I recommend that you put your ad up on Lust Bird. 

Good Luck!

Hey New Mexico:

All you have to do is ask away!