http://saucysw.com Sex-Positive Information • Community • Straight/Gay/Kink • New Mexico and the Southwest Mon, 26 Jul 2010 21:32:32 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en In a rare local teaching engagement, national educator and local columnist Julian Wolf comes to Self Serve in Nob Hill to teach BDSM 101: Experimentation is the Spice of Life tomorrow at 7:30pm. The class is only $15, and tickets can be reserved in advance. Walk ins are welcome, until ... http://saucysw.com/2010/07/class-experimentation-is-the-spice-of-life/ Dear Julian, Does kink and sex always go hand in hand? From what I hear monogamy can’t happen with kinky people and it’s crazy sex all the time with the guy/gal that brought the rope. Is that right? Thanks, Exhausted Thinking About It Dear Exhausted, Contrary to somewhat popular belief, kink and the act ... http://saucysw.com/2010/07/kink-and-monogamy/ Dear Julian, What's all this I hear about food and sex? Heck, some of the internet memes ask about sex w/ vegetables, and I always hear about the sexiness of strawberries & whipped cream, not to mention chocolate body paint. Do people really do that? Is it a good idea? Thanks, B aka ... http://saucysw.com/2010/06/sexy-food/ Dear Julian, Do any women actually like porn? I mean seriously, I can never get my girlfriends to watch porn with me, unless its my birthday or something, and then I get in trouble for looking. I have to hide my porn. What's the deal? scared to watch Dear scared, Sorry to hear that ... http://saucysw.com/2010/04/chicks-can-dig-porn/ [caption id="attachment_799" align="alignleft" width="300" caption="NMLL Presents: Spring Pandemonium"][/caption] New Mexico Leather League's annual spring bash! An awesome kinky get together with workshops, titleholders benefit lunch,  "The Follies" variety show and fabulous play parties. Want to stay at the hotel? Special room rates apply. Ask for the Spring Pan discount ... http://saucysw.com/2010/04/spring-pan/ Hey Julian, What does pansexuality mean? There's already bisexual, what's the difference really? I mean, how many words do we need? Thanks, Not an English Major Hello NAEM, Pansexuality is commonly defined as being attracted to people regardless of their gender. (It also is a word to describe events where everyone is welcome.) How is ... http://saucysw.com/2010/03/pansexuality-flock-together/ Just in time for the vastly hated and very celebrated "V-Day" the Alibi's Love Bird and Lust Bird is launching Flock Together! This monthly event is the real-life meet and greet that Albuquerque's available and single adults have been asking for. I'll be hosting, and as the event grows, we'll ... http://saucysw.com/2010/02/first-flock-together/ Julian, so i know i should probably consult a doctor either way but every now and then when my boyfriend fingers me, it takes a while for me to orgasm, and the only way i can is if he gets rough. i’ve experienced minor bleeding afterwards and was wondering if it ... http://saucysw.com/2010/01/more-than-medical-advice/ Hi Julian, This may be the first time that you've gotten this question but; Is there any groups or anything like that for meeting singles that are still VIRGINS anywhere around the Albuquerque area? I keep telling myself that I CAN'T possibly be the ONLY remaining one in this town! (Even though ... http://saucysw.com/2009/12/virgin-territory/ Via. http://saucysw.com/2009/12/amanda-lepore-watermelon/